I don't know if she was upset or mot. I just found it terribly disrespectful.y.DH has NEVER said things like that my or my children's presence
We just want them to get the garage door opened for us, or when DH is texting his boss back, or bidding on some new stereo equipment and I ask him how is girlfriend is doing--I'm not accusing him of having an affair--I'm joking with him about being on his phone.
DH &I were in Costco yesterday. I walked by a man standing with his two young sons just in time to hear him say, "let's find the old ball &chain.". Pretty loud, too. And his very attractive wife was standing less than 10 ft away. She had to have heard him. I didn't say anything, but I was offended. How could he speak that way about his wife, especially in public AND in the presence of his boys? Nice going, Crap Dad, teaching your kids how to treat women.
If my DH talked about me like that ,it would be game on!
I don't see the problem. I'm sure he was just fooling around. My husband and I do that all the time. Our kids know that too. Hardly anything to get your panties in a bunch about.
What have things become that now even messing around with your loved ones in not PC anymore. Some days I really weep for our future.
I used to have a tag that said "It's not your day to eat. Maybe tomorrow". Whenever my DD used to whine about being hungry that's what I'd say to her. Once we noticed the horrified looks on people's faces it became even more amusing. I would say that (and BTW I'm overweight) to this little, tiny skinny kid and then she would look at me with the most pathetic face and say something like "I understand, it's okay" or "It's okay, I can wait". And we'd walk off laughing our butts off at the people who were left in our wake, completely dumbfounded. Sarcasm spoken fluently.
Yup...us too. DH always jokes "it's time to trade you in for a new model" now that I'm over 40. I know he's just joking. We've been together for 23 years.
OMG! OP I would have been so offended and devastated that my day would literally been ruined. Is there anyway you can track this person down? I am afraid of the wife suffering even more verbal abuse.
I used to have a tag that said "It's not your day to eat. Maybe tomorrow". Whenever my DD used to whine about being hungry that's what I'd say to her. Once we noticed the horrified looks on people's faces it became even more amusing. I would say that (and BTW I'm overweight) to this little, tiny skinny kid and then she would look at me with the most pathetic face and say something like "I understand, it's okay" or "It's okay, I can wait". And we'd walk off laughing our butts off at the people who were left in our wake, completely dumbfounded. Sarcasm spoken fluently.
Lighten up, Francis.
I used to date a guy who would start all these bizarre conversations when we were eating at Denny's or sitting at the bus stop, in elevators, or any other high evesdrop location. They were absolutely hysterical and you had to be quick on your feet to keep up AND keep a straight face. One time he was doing out some story on how he couldn't leave his wife for me because she tended to get over emotional and how I should list someone else on the birth certificate as the father of my baby and so on when this old lady walked up to him, slapped him across the face, and then stormed off. After that he toned it down a bit.
DH &I were in Costco yesterday. I walked by a man standing with his two young sons just in time to hear him say, "let's find the old ball &chain.". Pretty loud, too. And his very attractive wife was standing less than 10 ft away. She had to have heard him. I didn't say anything, but I was offended. How could he speak that way about his wife, especially in public AND in the presence of his boys? Nice going, Crap Dad, teaching your kids how to treat women.
If my DH talked about me like that ,it would be game on!
I hope you are not standing next to me in the store when my DW calls on the phone, sirens go off and the phone says, "Warning, it's the wife calling, warning, it's the wife calling!" Oh, by the way, we have been married for 39 years so there's a lot of little jokes between us that is NO ONE ELSES BUSINESS!
DH has the same ringtone for me.