My ds went for 9 nights at 2.5 and we had a wonderful time. On the trip with us was my (then) 9 year-old daughter. It was just the three of us.
We had the regular dining plan and had one table service meal per day with the exception of our arrival and departure days. We had CRT to take up that extra dining credit. Since it was my last trip with ds for free and dd as a Disney child, we had lots of character meals.
Crystal Palace breakfast
Chef Mickey's dinner
Tusker House breakfast
Akershaus breakfast
Cinderella's Royal Table dinner
Hollywood and Vine breakfast
Garden Grill dinner
Our one non-character meal was dinner at Ohana, which my dd voted best food of the trip.
My son ate free at all of these places at 2.5. I think he ate his weight in grapes wherever they had them.
Ohana, Garden Grill and Akershaus were family style where it was all you care to eat, but brought to you.
Cinderella's Royal Table we ordered from a menu. Ds ate from the bread they brought us, and ate from both mine and dd's appetizers. They brought him a plate of pasta and he got a free drink and dessert.
The rest were buffets where he got his own free plate.
At counter service places there were lots of places where the portions were large enough that I shared my adult plate with him.
He was nervous around a few of the characters, but nervous for him meant they got a wave and high five, instead of hug and photo. For meet and greets with photopass, he would smile and interact with any character from about 3 feet away and he'd smile for the photo and give a hug if I was holding him. He walked straight up to his pal Mickey Mouse like I wasn't even there though.
We stayed at All-Star Movies. It fit our budget and the children loved the decor and the kiddie pool. We stayed in the Toy Story area on the trip last year and they had a lot of fun playing around the giant toys.
Here he is in RC the day we arrived. He wanted to pose in that car everyday.
He could ride anything without a height requirement and one of the things I love about Disney is that there are so many of these rides. He enjoyed all of the shows at various parks, the splash pad at Epcot, the safari and animals at AK, the parades and fireworks.
We are headed back in 3 weeks. This time we are staying at Pop because that was the cheapest I could get with the discount I had. He was so cute talking about how he wanted to go back to see Mickey. This will be the 3rd trip for the three of us. He went at 10 months and 2.5 years. I have no regrets of either trip.