I know you've been through a lot and clearly a CM should have shared this info with you earlier. Based on your updated response this feels correct. It's been my experience that if you request your bonus cards way ahead of your travel date (that you put in when requesting the cards), you won't get them until their window says it's time which appears to be about 3-4 weeks out. I received my latest $80 in cards for our August cruise last week however the date I entered for the vacation when requesting the cards was 3/29. I did receive an email when the cards were shipped so I'm hopeful you will too.
Yes the DVA can be wacky but I think a lot of frustration could be eased if they truly had a dedicated team that understood how it worked and could really SEE the info in the account real time and didn't have to refer to the back team for a call back a few days later. So frustrating.
I haven't been able to enter cards for two days now and they acknowledge there is an issue so here we go again, lol.
I hope you get your cards soon!
Heather