I'm Going, and taking my son for his b-day could care less if it is gay days... not a big deal to us. been there before during gay days and never had a problem.
My DS b-day is on the 6th. We are going saturday the 7th to celebrate.
We've been going to SWW every year for the past 5 years and it's so much fun (we are big SW fans).
True the crowds are crazy but that's part of the atmosphere IMO.
And yes I agree with one of the previous psters: the gay community is not the issue here it's mostly seeing a 40 yo man in full jedi outfit in 95 degree weather . And there aren't EMH for DHS during the weekends in June.
So if you love SW don;t worry about the crowds and just have fun. Make sure to drink plenty of fluids.
Red is his favorite color and he wants to wear his red shirts, but doesn't want to be mistaken and hit on.
Make him wear red, but in exchange, stay all over him while you are there. It'll be more fun and I'll bet he'll agree to that.
Seriously, I think Gay day has different colors for each day and park. You may want to check...
The only day with a "color" is the MK on Saturday. The tradition of wearing red started with the first Gayday in 1991 where people wore red so they could "be seen and be counted".
Not just the gay folks wear red on that day either, many "friends of the family" (supporters of the gay community) will wear red as well.
Rainbows are also of course on display, and there are some great shirts available on websites like www.cafepress.com if you want to show support. Here is one of the popular ones..
Word to the wise....that day don't wear a red shirt, that is how the participants id each other. There is a thread on the dis board and you can visit www.gaydays.com for full schedule of events.