Yep both are the same night. I was disappointed with the family costume party. 4 games, chaotic trick or treating and deafeningly loud music. We were done after 15 min. The competition being adult only took our team from 6 to 2. Didn't start until 11:15 so only grandma and grandpa (the grand duke and fairy godmother) made it, DH, my 2 girls and I stayed in (prince charming, step sisters and pink cinderella). They did win most Disney though!!
I'll post pics of the navigator for that day later if I can figure it out from mobile.