This was hard for me, but put yourself on a "no clothes buy" for one year. It is sort of liberating not shopping for yourself. Wear what is in your closet. We moved to a new home and I found out I had a ton of clothes. I packed away Seasonal clothes and when we moved, I was embarrassed to actually see how much I had. So I put myself in the "no buy zone". Kids need clothes, since they grow out of clothes fast. But do you notice they wear the same clothes every 3 days, since you wash clothes often? Commit to only shop for them 3 times a year. We used to school shop for clothes in May/June when winter clothes were marked down, then we would hit the clearance rack for summer clothes when school clothes came out in Auguest. another good time to buy clothes is after Christmas, with all the returns and then it hits the clearance racks. With shampoo's I consider that a staple. if I don't get good hair products, I look like "the The Freeze Mister, I have very thick curly hair, that is one thing I do not scrimp on, hair products.