Hi everyone, sorry I haven't responded sooner. Our youngest son is here visiting, so we've been preoccupied with him!
Lots has changed in the last week. Let me preface this by saying that I know I will probably get some people giving me their opinions on our upcoming trip next month, but what's done is done, we are going regardless. It's our 24th anniversary, and we originally planned it around a Fleetwood Mac concert, (for those of you old enough to know who they are) and the air & concert tickets have long been bought (every year we get companion vouchers with AK Air that cost $160 rt which is a steal).
As far as the current cc we are working on, I haven't transferred it over to Discover yet, but am probably going to do that today. I did end up asking for the Disney rewards to be redeemed, so they will be coming in the mail. I will save it for our eventual Disney trip for our daughter's graduation, which we hope will be after she graduates from college.
My husband is not happy with his job here, it's more than he bargained for, so in this case, the extra $$ is not worth it for him. I've never seen him so miserable. There are several opportunities for him to transfer back to either his old job or his former bosses job, one is happening sooner, but his old bosses job isn't opening up until the end of June. Although it's not GUARANTEED that he will get the job, his old boss called yesterday to encourage him to apply, and apparently his name has been brought up by several other higher ups, which is promising. In AK, if you move to bush AK, you get 38%-50% more than the base salary (centered in ANC) with the state. The flip side to that is it's much more expensive to live out here. Long story short, we may be moving back to our home, which is in Southcentral AK, within the next 3-4 months. We already have a house there, we've been paying rent & utilities here too, which is not cheap. I've already been trying to figure out how this would all work with the remaining 3 cc's to pay off, our daughter's wedding coming up, and our salary almost cut in 1/2, not to mention I would have to find a new job, we'd have to sell a few things here, and move again. We moved here in Sept. 2013. I'm sure it can work, but it will be a bit tricky in the beginning. I am trying to figure out how to pay down as much as possible of the cc that we are currently trying to focus on. 1) I've got to pay our tax bill now (yuck) 2) we go on our trip 3) on the way back, we are meeting with a person from retirement & benefits to ask questions in regards to my husband's upcoming retirement in 5 years 4) continue to pay down bills 5) possibly start packing & reorganizing things for our potential move.
The good thing is, we didn't bring/buy a lot of furniture for this place, the one big piece we sent here was a love seat, and we have a couple little end tables, other than our clothes and belongings. Both beds, sofa, chair, table & chairs, and one set of nightstands belong to our landlords. Even if this might seem stressful to some, and I'm sure it will have it's moments, I'm actually very excited & thrilled at the thought that we will be back with our kids/family again. We have been helping them out in since we've moved here as far as not expecting full rent, our daughter is finishing her degree in the next 1.5 years, and she has been paying it oop for the most part, with help from us occasionally. She's also been paying on her own car. Her fiance is working, just finished school, but is also starting to work part time with his dad, which they are hoping will turn into a full time thing. Our son is working as well, (they all work at the same place) and we just had a talk with him about contributing, especially with the potential changes coming up this summer. They all will be working longer hours this summer, and our daughter won't have school, so they can pay towards the household bills, whether we are moving or not.
The nice thing is, the wedding is going to be inexpensive-since they work at an events store, they will be getting all the rental equipment for free, his aunt is making the cake, another aunt owns a beautiful venue where they will get married, and they've already paid for the reception venue, which is in an old repurposed/refurbished train depot right in the cute little downtown area! They also reserved a DJ to play music, which they got at a discount since he's someone their workplace works with already. We bought her dress, which was extremely reasonable, she ordered it online, and we will be paying for the catering, which will be mexican food from a local place. We are looking forward to it!
I'm keeping an open mind, I decided there is no need to stress about all this, things will fall into place. I will keep going with our pay down plans, and even if things may be tight for a little bit and not be able to pay as much as we have been towards the bills right away, it will all work out. Looking ahead, as soon as I get a job, I am going to devote the majority of my income towards debt paydown & retirement, to get us back on track. I'm hopeful and have nervous excitement all at the same time! Wish us luck!