hello. I can't seem to keep up with my own life let alone anyone else's these days.
Yesterday we spent too many hours at the hospital. Chris had xrays,a wound check and an OT appt to have brace made. No surgery, at least not now. We now have to do daily dressing changes, he has to soak it in hydrogen peroxicide and water, let it air dry then redress it. It looks nasty, but we're getting by. Hunter had appointments with the Oncologist, Neurosurgeon, and Neurologist. They are please with all the post surgery stuff. He has a year before his next MRI and follow up appointments. He mentioned to them that his left ear was hurting and no less than 3 doctors looked at his ears. They noted some redness, but didn't think he had an ear infection. Apparently his pain got really bad during the night, but he didn't wake me up as he didn't want to add to my stress (that has me in tears as he should no that he is never ever a bother) Got him in to see another doctor this morning and both ears are infected, severely. He's on antibiotics now. Of course about an hour ago the leakage that he was experiencing turned to blood. Anothe call to the hospital. It seems that his ear drum has burst, no change in treatment. I will have him sleep in our room tonight as I want to manage his pain. Tomorrow is his friend party here so I hope that he feels up to it.
Nick had a rough go of it again last night. Apparently girls that he doesn't even know have gotten his number and call him when they are depressed or feeling like hurting themselves. I've blocked the number and had him unfriend them on facebook. He is not a therapist and has is own issues to deal with he certainly doesn't need everyone and their friends dumping their issues on him.
On the bright side Colby seems to be doing okay
My stress levels are through the roof and I don't have any control over any of it.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Deb