Jeanne B
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Dec 11, 2004
My DD shocked me tonight by announcing that she's not happy at the local university here and wants to withdraw. She's a sophomore and really likes her major but long story short, she's not happy with the college, professors, their teaching methods, etc.
I understand why she wants to withdraw and I feel I need to support her decision but what I'm not sure of is if it's best for her to finish out this semester or withdraw tomorrow (which I believe is the deadline to get 50% of the tuition back).
She told me she is definitely still very interested in her major (communicative disorders) and wants to pursue it again at a later date but she's struggling academically (she's on academic probation) and it seems to have to do a lot with her unhappiness at the university. She was always an A/B student in highschool taking AP classes so she knows, and I know, that she's capable of doing much better.
Her intent is to withdraw and take the time she needs to figure out what college she wants to transfer to (most likely out of state) but is it even considered a transfer if she doesn't transfer immediately? Obviously I want to make sure she doesn't do something that costs her the credits she's earned to date during her freshman year. And I'm also concerned that her being on academic probation could affect her acceptance at another college.
We're planning to go to the University tomorrow to find out what the procedure is for withdrawing but I'd be interested in some feedback from those who have had a child do the same, or from those who have been through this themselves as a student.
I understand why she wants to withdraw and I feel I need to support her decision but what I'm not sure of is if it's best for her to finish out this semester or withdraw tomorrow (which I believe is the deadline to get 50% of the tuition back).
She told me she is definitely still very interested in her major (communicative disorders) and wants to pursue it again at a later date but she's struggling academically (she's on academic probation) and it seems to have to do a lot with her unhappiness at the university. She was always an A/B student in highschool taking AP classes so she knows, and I know, that she's capable of doing much better.
Her intent is to withdraw and take the time she needs to figure out what college she wants to transfer to (most likely out of state) but is it even considered a transfer if she doesn't transfer immediately? Obviously I want to make sure she doesn't do something that costs her the credits she's earned to date during her freshman year. And I'm also concerned that her being on academic probation could affect her acceptance at another college.
We're planning to go to the University tomorrow to find out what the procedure is for withdrawing but I'd be interested in some feedback from those who have had a child do the same, or from those who have been through this themselves as a student.