I'll join the "pointe shoe pain" club! DD has hard-to-fit feet; 2 different sizes, hereditary bunions, pronounced achilles, and strong feet with not great arches. The happiest day of my life was when the 3rd trained pointe shoe fitter agreed with the two previous, that DD really needed to wear Gaynor Mindens. We were trying to avoid this, but after 3 recommendations we ordered the Gaynors and never looked back! We went from buying 12 or more pairs of pointe shoes a year to buying FOUR pairs! I do not miss the constant ordering, panicking when SIs or Nutcracker season approached because of shoe backorders (Russian Pointe is terrible for this), the endless jet glue, and of course continual sewing of ribbons and elastics. Now, we order 2 pairs just before Nut season and and 2 pairs in January, instead of multiple pairs whenever I could afford them or they were in stock. I bet I am saving $800 a year now that DD is in Gaynors. I know GMs get a lot of bashing and opinions, and I don't think they are for everyone (especially dancers with fewer than 3 or 4 years of pointe training), but they have been a life saver for both DD's feet and my wallet!
(and when DD wore Suffolks, I think she danced through them just as quickly as any others, although I think her Freeds were the worst for wearing out quickly!)