wow, unfortunately my "luck" doesn't carry over to my purchase of lottery tickets.....but in WDW, every single restaurant we've eaten at the past few years (most buffets) - the manager on duty always had NO issue whatsoever charging her the children's price. And probably half the time, they didn't charge her at all. And at non-buffet restaurants, there was never an issue with her ordering off the children's menu either. They never once said no, and never batted an eye at our request. Doesn't seem so much luck to me at standard operating procedure. That's just been my experience on every trip, and we do a lot of character buffets.
I don't think this is standard operating procedure as the DISboards is not the only place I've ever heard of people being denied the ability to pay kid's price on a regular basis... It is all over every bariatric support boards too, people complaining that disney won't honor their "please charge this patient less money" cards. There is lots of disappointment out there about the fact that Disney is not going to monitor food intake at AYCTE experiences and they charge by age ONLY.
It's just not realistic to do it any other way in a place as huge with as much volume as Disney. At what point do you decide that someone ate too much to charge for a kid's meal? Who gets to decide how much at a AYCTE place is "too much" to justify a kid's price? What about older people who eat like birds and who are there with the grandkids? What about people who don't want to eat a whole lot but do want to see the characters... if people PROMISE to only eat a certain volume of food, shouldn't they be able to pay kid's price too? It is just not practical to enforce and Disney would lose a mint if it got out that all you had to do was say that you had some kind of bariatric surgery in order to get charged the kid's price... they cannot (due to HIPPA rules) require any sort of medical proof (they cannot and do not for the
DAS pass either), so it would be based on your word only. Anyone who believed that they were justified in being charged kid's price because they do not feel like they eat enough to justify the adult price would have to be allowed to be charged the kid's price for consistency. This would be a logistical nightmare.
Although I personally do not relish the idea of paying $30 for a breakfast where I will eat 3-4 oz of food, it is just part of the price for going to Disney and eating at a character meal, where everything is overpriced and as I said, it's just a matter of degree. I am fairly new at this but have done just fine at restaurants recently. We went to a chinese buffet my boyfriend frequents and they have a "to go" price per pound... he asked if they would allow me to weigh out my food and then eat at the table with the rest of the (large) party... since he is a regular there they allowed me to do this but one of old ladies who works (or maybe the owner) there basically stared at me the entire time, probably to make sure I was only eating my $2.27 worth of food and not eating off of my kid's plate. I can't possibly imagine how this would realistically work at an operation like Disney... you would have to rely on the "honor system" to police it, and we all know how well that goes.
Disney DOES allow adults to order off the kid's menu without question (and they don't ask or care why you are doing it) and I had great luck doing that at a Red Robin... the waitress had no interest whatsoever in why I wanted to order off the kid menu and was friendly and accommodating. They also allow you to share plates without a plate splitting charge (doesn't work for me since I travel with my picky kid and I am not eating what he eats to save a few $$ but when I am out with the boyfriend he will often accommodate my tastes and let me eat a bit off his plate). Appetizers are an option too. But at the a la carte places I'm going, if I want an entree I will order it and eat what I can and pitch the rest rather than arguing with the restaurant that they should make me a half portion.
But if you want an AYCTE place you kind of have to suck up and deal with the rules from everything I've read and not just here. Which is fine by me... even though I got the surgery, believe it or not I was never a huge eater and never went to buffets so that I could stuff myself full of "$50 or $60 worth of food." I could never eat that much at one sitting and there is nothing on the disney buffets remotely worth that in reasonable volumes. I have never tried to "eat my money's worth" at any buffet, but especially not a Disney buffet when it is often hot out and we are doing a ton of walking and riding on rides... none of that is fun if you feel like a python that is trying to digest a pig. it was always more about the overall experience and ambiance and getting myself fed and satisfied and if I was ok paying the price for that before, I am ok paying it now. I mean really, if I could eat a dozen more eggs I'd get another $2.79 value out of it? yuck, who wants to do that?
As I said, breakfast is a great option because it's not $50 or $60, it's "only" around $30 and the protein options are varied and plentiful. It's $10 more for adults over kids. Really it is completely not worth even batting an eye over in the context of a multi thousand dollar vacation! Perspective is a great thing