I have posted so many threads to this question, I have to make a folder just for them. I have posted many many threads related to this issue and the mods actually made a lot of the information into a Sticky. So if you search in the above link you will find a lot of information. I have also included several threads below this post that wilol help you as well. If you do not find all you are looking for, please feel free to message me and I will help in any way I can. I have assisted many parents here. I have done social stories, graphics, step processes, dvds many many things.
I do want to start by saying, most people feel the DISability boards are not real helpful to the cruise section of Disney. They are AWESOME with the parks, but not the cruise as much.
I want to first address a few things; not to argue but to prepare you!
I want to say the family that mentions about priority boarding... Do not come to think you will get priority boarding. You can get boarding assistance, but not priority boarding. I would bet if they got to be the first ones on the ship, it was because they got there early enough to get a early boarding number and where then taken to the front for boarding assistance. Meaning... they did not get there after the people who got boarding number let's say 4 and then were allowed to skip the line and get on first. I have known many many to ask for priority boarding and ALL have been decline. One family even pulled the ADA card and still was denied. Having cruised DCL MANY times, I actually suggest arriving between 12 &12:30. You then have NO WAIT. I will explain this later.
As far as the safety drill. The safety drill is a federal mandated event and EVERYONE has to attend and they are not suppose to offer alternative locations. Actually if this is found out, the ship can be given a huge fine. If someone was given an alternative location for the drill and it was found out or if they allowed someone to skip
it will never fly. The truth is, if it were a true emergency on the ship, then no alternative locations would occur then and therefore ALL must be preparred. Now there is a way you can play the Autism Card if you want. When booking your room, you can have them give you a room located to the place the muster station is the WDT. The WDT is less stimulating than the outside decks and FAR less stimulating than AP. So you can request a room in a certain area if you want. The saftey drill is sort of like customs. No matter how bad you want to get out of it, you must go through it. Trust me.... When I would wake up at the crack of dawn to go through customs in St. Thomas, I was trying to pull out every card I could.
Ok, let me get serious again... You have to go and you SHOULD WANT to go. It is very important to know how to follow procedure in the event of an emergency. In my other post, I do suggest earplugs and I do suggest a SR that is not right next to the alarm in the hall.
I do want to let you know that DCL is the most lax of all of the other cruiselines with the Safety Drill. I think it is because there are som many kids. Just know if you prepare him, it will be fine. I do have a really nice guide I have put together. Another DISer has it right now, so I need to get it back from her when she is done, but let me know if there is something you need.
Please note there is no 1:1 care in the clubs. I will be very curious of how the mixing of ages will effect the ASD kids. Time will only tell there.
Here are the other links. Happy reading. Let me know if there is anything else.
Here is the thread: My post is #6.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1567951
Here is another one: I think my post is #4 & #7
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1677114
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