I've been at my company for 15 years. For the last 10 years (since my first child was born), I have been part time, working 2 days per week. I love my job, my clients, and my bosses. However, they have been struggling with finding competent workers as the business has grown. They are teasing me about coming back full time, but it's not just "teasing". The plan was that I would go full time once the kids were in school. I ended up having 4 kids, and the baby is just 20 months. I know I have been very blessed with such an understanding workplace.
However, with 4 kids, I don't truly see myself going back full time. The cost of summer camp alone for 4 kids would kill us! When I add up all the breaks/days off, it's just under 1/3 of the full year's work days. And that's no snow days or sick days. We use my MIL to watch the two little kids now, but all 4 kids is too much for her. Even the 2 little ones are getting to be a lot. I would love to work from home, or get something at school so that I could be on the same schedule as the kids.
Today, in the span of 1 hour, my bosses again asked about me increasing my hours, and then when I picked up my eldest from an after school club, I was told there is a cafeteria position opening. School schedule, 1/2 days, 5 days a week. Massive pay cut. BUT...At my current job, I have been a great saver. I put away 20% of my income to the 401(k). So, in essence, my new take home would be just about the same as my current take home. Except I would stop my 401(k) contributions. Being in the financial industry, that's a tough call to make, but I also know my current 401(k) balance, and I'm ok with it. Like I said, I've been socking it away for a long time!
I could stay at my current job part time. I could put the kids in daycare and go back full time, and make lots of money. The current job could also be an eventual career move to partner. Or, since we've already given up big money for me to be home with the kids all these years, we could just go all in and say I'm a mom first and foremost. I've got a lot of years ahead of me to worry about school schedules!
I am torn. There are pros and cons to each. What things would you consider to help make the decision?
However, with 4 kids, I don't truly see myself going back full time. The cost of summer camp alone for 4 kids would kill us! When I add up all the breaks/days off, it's just under 1/3 of the full year's work days. And that's no snow days or sick days. We use my MIL to watch the two little kids now, but all 4 kids is too much for her. Even the 2 little ones are getting to be a lot. I would love to work from home, or get something at school so that I could be on the same schedule as the kids.
Today, in the span of 1 hour, my bosses again asked about me increasing my hours, and then when I picked up my eldest from an after school club, I was told there is a cafeteria position opening. School schedule, 1/2 days, 5 days a week. Massive pay cut. BUT...At my current job, I have been a great saver. I put away 20% of my income to the 401(k). So, in essence, my new take home would be just about the same as my current take home. Except I would stop my 401(k) contributions. Being in the financial industry, that's a tough call to make, but I also know my current 401(k) balance, and I'm ok with it. Like I said, I've been socking it away for a long time!
I could stay at my current job part time. I could put the kids in daycare and go back full time, and make lots of money. The current job could also be an eventual career move to partner. Or, since we've already given up big money for me to be home with the kids all these years, we could just go all in and say I'm a mom first and foremost. I've got a lot of years ahead of me to worry about school schedules!
I am torn. There are pros and cons to each. What things would you consider to help make the decision?