I think this is one of those things that is so situation dependent. My concern would be people projecting their own sense of how someone handles a miscarriage on the person who actually had the miscarriage. But, everyone is different. Sometimes these things are public when a person would prefer it not be....some people can smile and say thank you for the card, but on the inside are horrified that their miscarriage has generated a response from anyone. Some people embrace the sunshine bag.
I think it's one of those situations where if you really don't know and aren't sure, less is better. In fact, I wouldn't seek someone out to say something.
I think it's one of those situations where if you really don't know and aren't sure, less is better. In fact, I wouldn't seek someone out to say something.