My dd is 8 years old and is getting:
clothes
make-up
barbie
zhu zhu pets
wii games
ds games
baby cakez maker
movies
my twinn doll
barbie clothes
rubix cube
I am also an independent sales consultant for 2 different things and she is getting a scent mate for her bedroom. It is a little diffuser thing that has scented pads in it and blows fragrance in the air. I don't allow her to burn candles in her room, but she is always asking for them. So this is a way to get her what she wants, but without the open flame.
The other ds company is a food related company and she is getting some mixes so she can do her own baking. Everything I sell takes 2 ingredients or less and she loves to make things completely on her own, so this makes it possible for her to "cook" dinner for us by doing a dip as an appetizer, a soup mix as a main dish, bake a loaf of bread to go along with the soup, and bake a cake for dessert. I am getting her 3 different sets of these items so she can make us dinner once a month January-March.
Oh yeah, she's also getting stocking stuffers, which will include cake mix (for her baby cakez, lip gloss, scented oil for her diffuser, fun soaps, hand sanitizer, a really good electric toothbrush, funny socks, hats & mitten sets.
BTW, I think hand me downs are okay....I have saved a lot of stuff to pass on to my niece. However, I think each child deserves to have brand new stuff of their very own. Maybe a really nice outfit all the way from shoes to a purse or their very own hand held game.... just something that they don't have to share, that hasn't been passed down.
And as far as the jewelry goes, what about id bracelets? They are inexpensive and engravable....very special if engraved on both sides.