OneOftheB's
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 5, 2015
My MIL was very forceful about wanting to be there when I delivered DS. I told my husband (once other people told me about my MIL's plan to be in the room) that no one other than the doctors and DH were going to be in the room once things really started happening. MIL complained for several months and was very reluctant to leave the room when asked to go. People were allowed to come in and visit, in 2's and 3's while I was in early labor, but the numbers were kept small, per hospital rules. I ended up having a c-section, so I didn't have to continue to hear about it. DD was a scheduled c-section, so MIL was nipped out of the gate.
I felt awful for my SIL, who isn't the most forceful person. She went into labor while my in-laws were at her house. They went to the hospital with my BIL & SIL (separate cars, thankfully). Her labor progressed extremely quickly (or maybe she was ignoring it, hoping the in-laws would leave, lol). Her baby crowned within minutes of her arriving in the labor & delivery room and the staff hustled my MIL out of the door (FIL was still parking the car). My SIL said she could hear MIL yelling in the hallway that she wanted to be in the room, that someone should LET HER IN!!!
I hope, should I ever be blessed with grand kids, that I can remember those feelings of privacy and not become like my MIL.
I felt awful for my SIL, who isn't the most forceful person. She went into labor while my in-laws were at her house. They went to the hospital with my BIL & SIL (separate cars, thankfully). Her labor progressed extremely quickly (or maybe she was ignoring it, hoping the in-laws would leave, lol). Her baby crowned within minutes of her arriving in the labor & delivery room and the staff hustled my MIL out of the door (FIL was still parking the car). My SIL said she could hear MIL yelling in the hallway that she wanted to be in the room, that someone should LET HER IN!!!
I hope, should I ever be blessed with grand kids, that I can remember those feelings of privacy and not become like my MIL.