Oh after reading just part of this thread I'm glad we have a simple system here in Canada. If you make $x then you pay $y in support based on the number of kids. Plus a % of things like daycare that is a ratio based on both parents income. So if he makes $50000 and I make $100000. He pays 1/3 and I pay 2/3. No fighting over amounts or going back to court endlessly.
And to those who think someone receiving support should have to show that the money is spent on the children, remember this. My house, utilities, cable, Internet, and phone all are things partially for my kids. People use their cars (and gas and insurance) to drive their kids places. When I go out to eat so do my kids. When I buy furniture etc for my house that benefits my kids. Basically anything I pay for except for my clothes, hair cuts, and other personal expenses of mine, benefits my kids. So having to show that the support $ I receive is spent on my kids is the stupidist thing I have ever heard. I may go out an buy myself a new pair of shoes after I get my support payment but every expense incurred to provide for my kids comes right out of my account.
And to those who think someone receiving support should have to show that the money is spent on the children, remember this. My house, utilities, cable, Internet, and phone all are things partially for my kids. People use their cars (and gas and insurance) to drive their kids places. When I go out to eat so do my kids. When I buy furniture etc for my house that benefits my kids. Basically anything I pay for except for my clothes, hair cuts, and other personal expenses of mine, benefits my kids. So having to show that the support $ I receive is spent on my kids is the stupidist thing I have ever heard. I may go out an buy myself a new pair of shoes after I get my support payment but every expense incurred to provide for my kids comes right out of my account.