We just got back from the 7-day Western Magic yesterday. We were also given second seating and waitlisted for first. With 2 small kids, it was important to us to get early seating. When we checked in, we still had second seating. After boarding, we went to the place where they were taking dining room change requests. We were about 5th in line (everyone ahead of us wanted to change to early seating). We didn't think we had a chance! When it was our turn, we asked if we could get early seating with a table for four (I added, "I know that's too much to ask"). He said, "No problem. Just go to your regularly scheduled dining room at the early seating time and they'll give you your new table number." Sure enough, we had a table for four at early seating waiting for us! I'm not sure how they do it, but they really do everything in their power to grant all of your wishes!