madenon
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- May 27, 2007
Boomhauer, of course these stories about the things aren't acceptable. They never are, never mind what reason. What I've been reading about some experiences on here they are literall jaw-dropping. As human beings we should not tolerate that from any other human being, period. And to be clear on this; I'm not doubting if they're true or not for even a second!!
What I was objecting against is the "speak english when in public, even if you're not talking to anyone outside your group because otherwise you are disrespectfull".
It is hard to deal with these kinds of behaviour. And with me not being from Brazil, I can only guess on what information we get about Brazil and it's inhabitants. They are loud people, compared to what we're used to. Not wanting to be rude, not thinking they're rude, being loud is simply they're way of life. For instance; we run into them with soccer a lot. If you see how a dutch team would prep, as an american you would probably think "that's the same as we do it". The Brazil team? A lot of chanting, music making, a LOT of noice! It's like a culture shock. But than again, I must say there is never any chanting our whistling during another anthem being played before any match. If there is, most of them are europeans doing that, I must say to my dislike.
For me it's normall to think about the country you're visiting. Eventhough you might not speak the language, we all have access to internet. It isn't hard anymore to look up a bit about a country so you don't run around half naked in very islamitic countries, so I don't burp after dinner in our country (that is a compliment in some countries), or I don't ignore the way my own country run Suriname into poverty when I visit Suriname. If you ask me, these simple things are the way in which we pay respect. Look up the big things and act appropriate. And sure, we might slip up sometime, but at least you'll take out the real big NONO that are the worst.
What I was objecting against is the "speak english when in public, even if you're not talking to anyone outside your group because otherwise you are disrespectfull".
It is hard to deal with these kinds of behaviour. And with me not being from Brazil, I can only guess on what information we get about Brazil and it's inhabitants. They are loud people, compared to what we're used to. Not wanting to be rude, not thinking they're rude, being loud is simply they're way of life. For instance; we run into them with soccer a lot. If you see how a dutch team would prep, as an american you would probably think "that's the same as we do it". The Brazil team? A lot of chanting, music making, a LOT of noice! It's like a culture shock. But than again, I must say there is never any chanting our whistling during another anthem being played before any match. If there is, most of them are europeans doing that, I must say to my dislike.
For me it's normall to think about the country you're visiting. Eventhough you might not speak the language, we all have access to internet. It isn't hard anymore to look up a bit about a country so you don't run around half naked in very islamitic countries, so I don't burp after dinner in our country (that is a compliment in some countries), or I don't ignore the way my own country run Suriname into poverty when I visit Suriname. If you ask me, these simple things are the way in which we pay respect. Look up the big things and act appropriate. And sure, we might slip up sometime, but at least you'll take out the real big NONO that are the worst.