I know my son is young, but you are most definitely right. It is for me. So I will enjoy it. It's our first family trip since my son was born. We got pregnant at Disney on our honeymoon last year. So, he's our little disney baby. I really want to experience it, and the fact that I get to experience it with my husband and my sweet boy makes it priceless to me. Maybe with a little kind persuasion, I can get my way!
My son isn't a big sleeper other than in the morning and of course at bedtime. He loves people watching and is very observant for his age. We were planning on spending most of our nights in the park instead of out in the heat.
I have a feeling I may be in your situation soon enough. Boys are boys. But I love the castle and princesses too! And the amazing food doesnt hurt either! You are their princess! If you can't be one at disney, where can you be one??