Sabeking
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Sep 2, 2004
This may seem to be a strange thread title for my circumstances but focusing on the blessings helps me cope. I lost my mom yesterday after 5 years of illness. It's kind of therapeutic to share. My parents were married 54 years and have five kids. Moms illness has been a challenge but I see so much fruit in the suffering.
~ Mom was the giver and dad was the receiver, during mom's illness they were forced to switch roles and grow.
~My brothers and I were put in a position to lean on one another for support .
~We took a family vacation with all 23 of us for our parents which we may have not done had mom not been ill.
~Countless opportunities occurred where complete strangers aided my parents. I had shared a story about how some teenagers bought my parent's meal after seeing my dad feed my mom. They shared that he was an inspiration.
~ I want to hug or smile at everyone over 75! They have so much to share and may lonely.
~Thanksgiving day all 23 of us gathered around her bed and told her what she meant to us. We have a family bond now that means so much.
I can think of another 50 but don't want to go on. I hope you don't mind me sharing and I would love to hear how others are blessed in keeping with the holidays!
~ Mom was the giver and dad was the receiver, during mom's illness they were forced to switch roles and grow.
~My brothers and I were put in a position to lean on one another for support .
~We took a family vacation with all 23 of us for our parents which we may have not done had mom not been ill.
~Countless opportunities occurred where complete strangers aided my parents. I had shared a story about how some teenagers bought my parent's meal after seeing my dad feed my mom. They shared that he was an inspiration.
~ I want to hug or smile at everyone over 75! They have so much to share and may lonely.
~Thanksgiving day all 23 of us gathered around her bed and told her what she meant to us. We have a family bond now that means so much.
I can think of another 50 but don't want to go on. I hope you don't mind me sharing and I would love to hear how others are blessed in keeping with the holidays!