I wanted to add to the Blue Bayou thing. When I made the PS I told the CM that it was his actual birthday (we canceled the Princess b'fast, which he had wanted to do but then lost interest in, b/c he got SO into pirates as the trip approached) and she noted it.
When we sat down at our table, there was a slip of paper on the table with our PS info, my name, and something like "4th birthday free dessert" on it.
That's all DS wanted (he was scared by their mac and cheese last Sept, and there's nothing else that he will eat there as we're veggie and he doesn't like mushrooms) so hubby and I shared the portobello dish while DS ate the free ice cream the CM offered him for his birthday.
There was a server change in the middle of our meal, and they were going to charge us, and I almost let it go, but it was something the PS CM said we would get, and it was written right on the slip of paper, so I asked, and they apologized and took the charge off.
Adding: other than that free dessert at that one meal, we expected NOTHING but well wishes, and we got those in abundance.
Oh, and yes, the pack of free tortillas.
But nothing else.