However, he will not ride with my DH anymore, only with me. This is because he needs to have some kind of restraint to feel comfortable riding, and the lap bar wouldn't come down far enough on him with my DH with him. It wasn't a huge amount between them, but enough to make him uncomfortable. So, just make sure she is comfortable with the lap bar not down against her, or hold your hand across her, if you are uncomfortable. Have a blast!
I'm 43 years old and it bothered me to not have the lap bar anywhere near me. I rode it for the first time last year and didn't know at the start that it was a very tame coaster. I rode with my DH who is quite a bit larger than I am and the lap bar was so far away from me I was nervous. This past year when we went I didn't even go on it since I didn't want to ride it with DH. I would have your child ride with whoever is the smallest person in your party if they want to go on. That way they have some security from the lap bar. (mental security... you don't come out of your seat at all and need the lap bar to hold you in)