Princesspolly0110
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- Nov 24, 2013
okay yall. I have a somewhat personal issue I have to have some guidance on so hopefully you all can helping me out!
I met one of my best friends through work a couple of years ago, and we were instantly family. She has 3 children that I have become very close to and they even have referred to me as "aunt ___" for some time now
Back in December my friend (we will call her A, to protect her identity) told me that she had started causally seeing one of our friends that had previously been interested me. No big deal, there was no interest in my end. A month later, they officially got into a relationship. Since there gradually, the boyfriend has almost made it almost impossible for us to have a relationship. He has told me I have no place in helping with her children( I regularly keep a kid and run them to after school activities to spend time with them or to just simply have quality time with them) and tells me that her attention is to be on him and her children at all times. Last week there was a bad storm here and in the middle of the night she asked me to come and stay at the house knowing that I was scared to death. I live just across our small town highway. I used my phone flashlight to use the bathroom of their jack and Jill suite and the next morning, A asked me to please call and apologize to him for disrupting him while he slept by using the bathroom. I do not agree that anyone should have to apologize for using the bathroom and especially because it is her home and she invited me in.
I'm not sure I should push the issue with her because she believes they are meant to be and planning a life together, while I'm concerned over the issues with truth and control. Anyone have any advice? Thanks!
I met one of my best friends through work a couple of years ago, and we were instantly family. She has 3 children that I have become very close to and they even have referred to me as "aunt ___" for some time now
Back in December my friend (we will call her A, to protect her identity) told me that she had started causally seeing one of our friends that had previously been interested me. No big deal, there was no interest in my end. A month later, they officially got into a relationship. Since there gradually, the boyfriend has almost made it almost impossible for us to have a relationship. He has told me I have no place in helping with her children( I regularly keep a kid and run them to after school activities to spend time with them or to just simply have quality time with them) and tells me that her attention is to be on him and her children at all times. Last week there was a bad storm here and in the middle of the night she asked me to come and stay at the house knowing that I was scared to death. I live just across our small town highway. I used my phone flashlight to use the bathroom of their jack and Jill suite and the next morning, A asked me to please call and apologize to him for disrupting him while he slept by using the bathroom. I do not agree that anyone should have to apologize for using the bathroom and especially because it is her home and she invited me in.
I'm not sure I should push the issue with her because she believes they are meant to be and planning a life together, while I'm concerned over the issues with truth and control. Anyone have any advice? Thanks!