In process of trying to secure ADR at Ohana, but I'm not having much luck. What are other good out of park options to consider? We will have kids with us, so staying away from super fancy (even at Disney) would be my preference.[/QUOTE
The old restaurant adage is, "Location, location, location."
I never recommend traveling for food, because there is not much food worth traveling for at Disney - certainly not with 5 children.
I will assume by your desire to eat at 'Ohana (which is not inexpensive since it's all inclusive) that you want to eat along Monorail resorts:
Contemporary - Wave. We stay at Bay Lake and wish the food was better at Wave. The 'crunchy' menu with sustainable fish and grass-fed beef is appealing, but we've never really enjoyed our meals too much.
Polynesian - Kona is the moderate place and the food is fine. Recent lobby renovations make the ambiance more appealing.
Grand Floridian - GF Cafe is the moderately priced sit-down. The food was better than Wave for our tastes. And we prefer the stroll in the hotel stores and the live music in the late afternoon into evening - but that might not work as well if you're traveling with 5 kids….then again, a hotel is less hectic than a Park.
Wilderness Lodge - a short boat ride away that by itself may take enough time to provide an activity. The lobby is extremely well themed, and IMHO, is second only to Animal Kingdom Lodge. Whispering Canyon is the moderate and it comes with a bit of humorous banter (like 50's Prime Time in many ways). My wife does like the playing-with-food component (like bringing a pitcher of soda or limitless milkshakes), but if that works for your family, it can be a fun place.
We've never done it, but Hoop Dee Doo Review may be about the same price as 'Ohana and seems to be fun for children of all ages.
Keep in mind, only 'Ohana has the fireworks with audio. So if that was part of your plan - the 2 y.o. is going to be asleep…..