Way back around 1990 I met a guy who was huge. When I first met him in the summer he was sitting on a set of chairs formed into a bench. He took up two chairs. By the end of the year he had lost 180 pounds.
Which was as much as I weighed. He had lost ME in weight.
He still needed to loose a few more pounds but he was obviously well on his way. He did this by exercise and eating less.
A few years ago a coworker had a lap band "installed."
He spent months loosing weight before the surgery, having tests, psych exams, etc. He lost about 75 pounds. He has had some adjustment issues but no real complications.
What I wished I had realized in 1990 was how bad soda's are for you. Soda's are around 200-300 calories per drink. If you had three a day that is around 750 calories! It only takes a few cans of soda a day to put you over your calorie needs and at the end of the year you have gained 20 pounds. Now I did not drink much soda since they made me sick but that extra 200 calories a day adds up regardless if it is from soda, cake, a second hamburger, Supersize fries, etc.
I was not drinking sodas back then but I was drinking OJ, which is just as bad from calorie count wise. Now I drink water for lunch. That one simple change really adds up over time. Saves money too. :lmao
Around 2000 I got this idea into my head and modified my diet. I did Atkins and lost weight but gained some of it back then I started to eat much less. No more going to the cafeteria for lunch. I would go to eat because it was a ritual and I would be hungry in the afternoon. Now I eat nuts and dried fruit at my desk. WHEN I get hungry.
Atkins really taught me that protein and fat fill you up. Carbs just make you eat more and feel sleeping.
I have lost a bit of weight but not much. BUT, I have lost a couple inches of fat.
Three years ago I bought a new belt and could barely use the second hole. Now I am at the last hole and I am getting close to the need of a new belt or putting in more holes in the belt.
It takes YEARS to get overweight. One of the problems for loosing weight is that we want the weight off NOW. This is an unrealistic expectation that causes people to fail. It takes years to add the weight, if you can from a health perspective, take the time to modify how and what you eat, to loose the weight. Even if it takes years.
Later,
Dan