We just got off the Dream yesterday and I feel the same way about the dining room servers. I'm fairly certain that our assistant server let our drinks get empty every night before we ever got refills (and he was the one I liked most out of the 3), I couldn't even tell you who our "head server" was, and our server just wasn't quite up to par. For example...the first night we were asking about the kids eating and then going to the clubs. He explained it and we said "o.k. - sounds great". I realize we never came out and said that is what we would like to do, and I know what you do when you assume, but after all that, why would he think we
didn't want to do that? Another example...our last night my husband (who is a very plain Jane kind of eater) was talking to the server about the appetizers and salads. I piped in that my husband would like the salads they offer on the kids menu. The server said o.k. and walked away. Fast forward an hour later when our entrees were being served and my husband didn't have anything. Our server never got his entree order. No problem, he says he will get DH one of what I had (which is what he would have ordered). DH asked him to bring him one with "nothing on it" and explained that he didn't want it in the sauce that mine was in. 10 minutes later, our server brings him a plate with a piece of beef in the middle with "nothing else on it". Just a big white plate and little piece of beef. DH never said that he didn't want the vegetables to go with it, just didn't want the sauce. Now I used to be a waitress at a little whole in the wall joint and know that that doesn't look right and I better make sure of what the customer wants. It wasn't enough to really complain about, but it sure wasn't anything exceptional that I've had on my 4 other cruises with
DCL.