NY Disney fan said:
Then maybe their employers should pay them what they are worth.
If the employer had to pay a server what they are worth, do you realize where that money would come from? It would come from you. Servers are paid somewhere between $2.15-$3.00 an hour, which does not even begin to cover their taxes. They work for the money left on the table. If the restaurant had to pay the servers more, the result would be a significant increase in menu prices. In case you can't tell, I am a server/bartender myself, from the midwest. I enjoy the people I take care of and if I go above and beyond, I enjoy when my guests give me a %20 or higher tip. In the midwest, just like anywhere else, if you get good service, you should return in kind with 18-20%. If you have to ask for drink refills or the like, but service was still good and friendly, sure 15% is appropriate. I know what is left for me is part of the biz. Some tips are great and some are not. Any server who outwardly shows they are displeased is not acting in a professional way. You should tip them appropriately. You want 15 cherries for your child's soda, "It would be my pleasure."(with a smile on my face, but I am thinking oh god, I got another one of them)
Not to make an excuse for the tipping policy on the MYW dining plan, but I think the consensus of most is that tip is included. I know when I work, I will most likely get 20%. But if say 15-18% is included, my chances of making 20% is a lot lower because most will not think of leaving extra.
Another thought: Most people tip based on total after tax. Computers add gratuity to the pretax amount. The tax on restaurants in Florida is probably about 7%. On a $100 check, the server probably gets about $1 less when the computer adds tax. Over the course of a year, that can really add up, possibly into $1000-$2000.
Just a few thoughts from inside the head of a server. I am now putting on my flame-proof suit.