3Gsandme
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- Jan 18, 2013
I have a five year old with a rather unique first name. She either goes by her full first name or a diminutive of that name which is, literally, half of her name. Like, Jenny for Jennifer or Danny for Daniel.
SiL is pregnant and wants to use dd's diminutive if she has a daughter. Again, like naming her daughter Gwen when my daughter was named Gwendolyn and goes by Gwen.
SiL asked me if I thought that was weird and I told her that I thought it was. That dd goes by that name. That everyone calls her that name.
Apparently, SiL is still pushing the issue and reached out to my sister today to tell her they were thinking of using this name. My sister told her it was weird and not a good idea and SiL seems to think it's no big thing and "nicknames are fair game".
Complicating this is both brother AND SiL call dd by this name, so it's not like they use her given name to speak with her. Again, it's like calling her Jenny and then wanting to USE the name Jenny for their future child.
I'm irritated and frustrated. Am I out of line?
SiL is pregnant and wants to use dd's diminutive if she has a daughter. Again, like naming her daughter Gwen when my daughter was named Gwendolyn and goes by Gwen.
SiL asked me if I thought that was weird and I told her that I thought it was. That dd goes by that name. That everyone calls her that name.
Apparently, SiL is still pushing the issue and reached out to my sister today to tell her they were thinking of using this name. My sister told her it was weird and not a good idea and SiL seems to think it's no big thing and "nicknames are fair game".
Complicating this is both brother AND SiL call dd by this name, so it's not like they use her given name to speak with her. Again, it's like calling her Jenny and then wanting to USE the name Jenny for their future child.
I'm irritated and frustrated. Am I out of line?