Hello,
My girlfriend is autistic, she has a mild form of Asperger syndrome. Anyway, we are heading to Disney world next year near the end of the year (you will see why I am planning so early now). This is the 6th time I have ever been to Disney World, but this will be the 1st time she has ever left England, or even been separated from one of her parents for anything more than a day, so this trip is going to be incredibly difficult for her. She assures me that she wants to go however. She does need to know everything in advance so it gives her a chance to 'absorb' the information. It helps her prepare mentally for what is going to come. She needs a detailed plan of what we are going to do and when, including the exact places we will eat. Deviating from this plan would cause her to become 'lost' and make her unhappy, she really does not like sudden change or surprises (ride surprises are fine!). Basically she doesn't like not being in control of a situation. We have a few problems though which I haven't had to face since I am not autistic and have no known somebody that is before.
1. She is afraid of crowds. We are planning for a quieter period of the year but she assures me she will get around the issue. I have no problem with this, we will be booking a longer holiday than we normally would in an attempt to allow her more time to absorb what its like in the theme parks. I honestly don't care if we only complete 2-3 attractions a day as long as she is feeling comfortable inside the parks.
2. This is where the real problem lies. It is her birthday on the 2nd day of the trip, and she has never done anything special for her birthday. I am planning on taking her somewhere nice to eat. The thing is, she has a fear of being surrounded by people whilst eating. I am looking for a table service meal, but in a relatively secluded area of a restaurant. Can anybody suggest somewhere that is suitable for our needs?
She will be 20 on her birthday. To be honest, she does not really show that she is autistic, it is only went you put her under pressure that symptoms begin to be displayed. I am a little worried that people we encounter won't actually understand that. As an example, we would have to avoid all nemo related attractions as she has a fear of sharks, even a character as simple as 'Bruce' will cause her to break down into tears.
I am sure there were questions up there! But if anybody can give any additional tips on how to cope in a theme park I would love to know. I have looked at the autism in parks website, but most of that information isn't really relevant to her as her symptoms are not as extreme as other peoples, in fact if you didn't know her you would assume that she was 'normal' (don't really want to use that word as it sounds wrong! Everybody is normal. It is not until that you get to know her in depth that you know about the intricacies of her personality I really want this to be the best holiday of her life, and something she will remember for years to come. She loves Disney and this is the best way to do it!
We won't be travelling until October 13, we would travel sooner, but she really feels that she needs time to adjust to actually going, after all its a massive step in her life and something she would not actually do if she weren't with me.
My girlfriend is autistic, she has a mild form of Asperger syndrome. Anyway, we are heading to Disney world next year near the end of the year (you will see why I am planning so early now). This is the 6th time I have ever been to Disney World, but this will be the 1st time she has ever left England, or even been separated from one of her parents for anything more than a day, so this trip is going to be incredibly difficult for her. She assures me that she wants to go however. She does need to know everything in advance so it gives her a chance to 'absorb' the information. It helps her prepare mentally for what is going to come. She needs a detailed plan of what we are going to do and when, including the exact places we will eat. Deviating from this plan would cause her to become 'lost' and make her unhappy, she really does not like sudden change or surprises (ride surprises are fine!). Basically she doesn't like not being in control of a situation. We have a few problems though which I haven't had to face since I am not autistic and have no known somebody that is before.
1. She is afraid of crowds. We are planning for a quieter period of the year but she assures me she will get around the issue. I have no problem with this, we will be booking a longer holiday than we normally would in an attempt to allow her more time to absorb what its like in the theme parks. I honestly don't care if we only complete 2-3 attractions a day as long as she is feeling comfortable inside the parks.
2. This is where the real problem lies. It is her birthday on the 2nd day of the trip, and she has never done anything special for her birthday. I am planning on taking her somewhere nice to eat. The thing is, she has a fear of being surrounded by people whilst eating. I am looking for a table service meal, but in a relatively secluded area of a restaurant. Can anybody suggest somewhere that is suitable for our needs?
She will be 20 on her birthday. To be honest, she does not really show that she is autistic, it is only went you put her under pressure that symptoms begin to be displayed. I am a little worried that people we encounter won't actually understand that. As an example, we would have to avoid all nemo related attractions as she has a fear of sharks, even a character as simple as 'Bruce' will cause her to break down into tears.
I am sure there were questions up there! But if anybody can give any additional tips on how to cope in a theme park I would love to know. I have looked at the autism in parks website, but most of that information isn't really relevant to her as her symptoms are not as extreme as other peoples, in fact if you didn't know her you would assume that she was 'normal' (don't really want to use that word as it sounds wrong! Everybody is normal. It is not until that you get to know her in depth that you know about the intricacies of her personality I really want this to be the best holiday of her life, and something she will remember for years to come. She loves Disney and this is the best way to do it!
We won't be travelling until October 13, we would travel sooner, but she really feels that she needs time to adjust to actually going, after all its a massive step in her life and something she would not actually do if she weren't with me.