Now, for the article to say we need to model ourselves after the French, I have to disagree. My family hosted a French exchange student. She was the rudest person I have ever met in my life.
[QUOTE="Got Disney";44077585]it is said that the French...from France... are very rude...the ones I have met have been...but I will not of course paint them all with a broad brush.....but that part I don't agree with that all the French are well behaved and polite.......[/QUOTE]
I totally agree. The author said:
"But it is true that French kids can be a whole lot more pleasant to be around than our own. Theyre more polite. Theyre better socialized. They generally get with the program; they help out when called upon to do so, and they dont demand special treatment."
If that is so, then how and WHEN do they turn into some of the rudest, arrogant, snooty adult snobs in the world? The only people the France French hate more than Americans are the Brits.
I've been to Paris & have worked with many French transplants, here for years. I find many other ethnicities are far more polite & considerate than the French people I have met.
To me, this article was about the French superiority to the uncultured American barbarians. I frankly had to wonder WHO the heck she hangs out with that ALL her examples were of self absorbed, inconsiderate people? And where is her personal accountability to get herself some better mannered friends. She certainly had on a pair of rose colored glasses in her view of the French.
Are there people and children like what she pointed out? Yes. But, I think she picked extreme examples. There are also very kind & considerate, generous, thoughtful ones too. I'm sure not every child on that school bus had the same reaction. Plus, it was the
mom who made the selfish comment. Her child, probably like many others may have been appalled, alarmed and empathetic when the child had a panic attack.
Does the author speak about those children? No. It doesn't serve her point or perceptions that the French are superior.