As it should be everyone has different opinions on every topic (that is what makes discussion boards great). We (Myself, DH, DS8, DS7 DD5) only travel duing peak dates so we handle and manage crowds well.
On the last SOLD OUT MVMCP of 2010 we entered the MK at 4pm.
Rode rides until 6:30pm
Got in line for the seven dwarfts - were done my 7:15
Got some hot chocolate and cookies
Went to the jessie &woody dance party - fun
Got a front row seat for the first parade - sat in front of the shotting gallary
Saw the parade (it is nice it starts in Frountier land so that was quick)
Went to the Chip and Dale dance party - fun again
Got more cookies
Saw the holiday firework from in front of the plaza
Rode some rides and left about 11:15pm.
It was snowing on mainstreet when we left - magical
It was a wonderful night - sold out - but managable if you have a plan. Maybe we just deal with crowds better than most.
and that is your experience.I have been doing parties since 2000 pretty much every year( stopped doing the christmas one completely a few years ago).Each year I have seen a BIG difference in prior years.I am glad that you enjoyed the party, and I am glad the crowds do not bother you.For us , we don't find the high cost worth it anymore.