Mickey527
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 1, 2000
Ok, I am sure this topic will get tons of flames. But I don't mean it to be, I just need to vent.
I am female and a male moved in with me a few years ago. I have no intention of getting married again. Been there, done that. My boys are 29, 27, and 22 and they understand how I feel about marriage for me. I encourage them to get married and on has already, so I am not down on it for everyone, just for me. I don't feel I need to be married and I have worked hard for everything I have and intend for my children to get it all when I die. I have done the will and my friend won't be able to claim cohabitation because of the will, but if I was married he would automatically get everything when I die. I am not planning on that for a long time I hope but I did have a scare last year and looked into everything.
Last summer I signed up for the Disney Dining card. I was able to get the card in my name but they wouldn't give me one for my friend because he didn't have the same name as I did. They told me that if I was in a same sex relationship they could give me a 2nd card in my "live-in's" name but since we are opposite sex they can only give one to me.
My place of employment just got a new clause on our insurance that they will cover insurance for "partners". I would love to cover my friend because he is disabled and has no health insurance of his own and goes to the VA for medical care. He has to pay $75 per visit and all his medication and tests come out of his disability check. He gets very little in disability because he didn't put much into SS before he was disabled.
I called Human Resources and they told me that the insurance is only for "same-sex" partners, not for opposite sex cohabitators.
I can't understand how companies can make this claim, that they will cover same-sex but not opposite unless you are married.
what do you think? Peggie
I am female and a male moved in with me a few years ago. I have no intention of getting married again. Been there, done that. My boys are 29, 27, and 22 and they understand how I feel about marriage for me. I encourage them to get married and on has already, so I am not down on it for everyone, just for me. I don't feel I need to be married and I have worked hard for everything I have and intend for my children to get it all when I die. I have done the will and my friend won't be able to claim cohabitation because of the will, but if I was married he would automatically get everything when I die. I am not planning on that for a long time I hope but I did have a scare last year and looked into everything.
Last summer I signed up for the Disney Dining card. I was able to get the card in my name but they wouldn't give me one for my friend because he didn't have the same name as I did. They told me that if I was in a same sex relationship they could give me a 2nd card in my "live-in's" name but since we are opposite sex they can only give one to me.
My place of employment just got a new clause on our insurance that they will cover insurance for "partners". I would love to cover my friend because he is disabled and has no health insurance of his own and goes to the VA for medical care. He has to pay $75 per visit and all his medication and tests come out of his disability check. He gets very little in disability because he didn't put much into SS before he was disabled.
I called Human Resources and they told me that the insurance is only for "same-sex" partners, not for opposite sex cohabitators.
I can't understand how companies can make this claim, that they will cover same-sex but not opposite unless you are married.
what do you think? Peggie