I don't feel bad from you. I'm just confused. Now you're saying I'm not a real person? I was involved in a divorce so then I'm a lesser person according to you? One of the points I made in a previous post was my prediction that younger generations, being as frivolous as they are with everything, won't take marriage/divorce as seriously as other generations. And thus, it will be more commonplace.
But at the same time, my peer group, while treating it seriously, still has more divorces than folks older than us. And of course many people came on here to disprove my personal observations and stats based off my peer group and geographical area.
Now, I haven't mentioned anything about kids and you're frisking out s little and crying "what about the children?!?"
Of course divorce has an impact on children. But so does living in a house where mom and dad are staying together "for the kids" when they shouldn't. Not that it is any of your business but I do not have children of my own. However, I am seeing a child close to me go through the difficulty of his parents divorce. But the issue in this situation is not the act of divorce; it's that his dad is a deadbeat who won't dedicate the time to be a parent to his child and therefore the child acts out. This was happening when the parents were still married. Dad didn't want to be around so he wasn't. It's a far more positive situation now that mom and dad have split up. Mom is happy, kids are generally happier with some issues being worked out and dad is basically not in the picture in a negative capacity. Granted the kid wants to be with his dad, yes. But as I circle back around, this issue is not a product of the divorce. It's the product of a selfish father.
Ok, so anything else you'd like to presume about me?