A few years back my son's pre-school social worker gave me a copy of some program called 1-2-3 (?) where you only respond to the child's request for something 3 times. You also don't "make deals" or need to go into great depth more than once with your child regarding your decision. Sounds pretty harsh but it really wasn't. Unfortunatly I think my ds ate my book . Anyone have anything they can forward to me for someone in my office>?