has anyone chosen the memories wedding? we are looking into something simple & inexpensive for just us 2 (& 2 teens)....just a simple white sundress on the beach with leis instead of traditional bouquet & some nice pictures for the $1900. we can't afford much else. If we honeymoon or add the vacation package does this qualify to upgrade to the next package which includes up to 20 guests (i think)...(meaning the $4700 upgraded to the min $7500 (or something along those lines I read) ...also, would we have to stay at polynesian resort the full 3/4 days to get this wedding package or can we switch locations after the wedding? we are possibly having a short 4 day/3 night stay with the kids & then sending them home on the plane while we honeymoon somewhere else. any sugestions, experience or knowledge is helpful.