I guess we pretty much "wing it". We are a family of 4 with 2 boys. We do make ADRs for the few meals that are musts for us (Chef Mickey's our first morning there). But we don't really make a "touring plan". We pretty much decide day to day what park we want to hit and what we want to do there. I would definitely do research (if you've never been) about the 4 parks and what rides you definitely want to do. Get to the park and get your fast passes, but again, we've been there during busy times, school vacation weeks, and we've managed just fine without having a big plan in place. Have fun!