Traveled to WD many times with my kids who are now 4 and 7. First bit of info for newbies is to be REALISTIC! I say this because we have taken our kids about five times now and in the begining we thought we could DO IT ALL in one trip...not going to happen! We still have not done it all and I dont think most newbies (with kids or not) have the grand scale of all there is to see and do...not to mention the parades, numerous trips to the bathroom, sick kids (yes it has happened to us a few time), and just the average "Im hungry" and "I have to go potty" and not to mention the melt downs and crankiness of being at the parks for days on end (yes, even the adults can get a little cranky from time to time too).
To help ease the Disney Overload we...
1. Bring a stroller. Doesnt have to be a huge stroller, but a good umbrella that folds up easily will do great especially on the sometimes VERY crowded buses. Make sure it has a hood if going in the Summer and maybe bring a few mister fans with as well as extra batteries.
2. Take small snacks such as a favorite cereal in baggies or animal cookies, etc. enough for a few days to keep in a backpack or purse. There are snacks at the parks obviously, but one from home can be comforting to little ones
3. KNOW where the closest BABY STATION is in each park!!!![/B] .They will be your best friend. They are cool, quiet, and a great place to relax, feed the little ones, or even nurse! I took my guys there to change them instead of the crowded and hard bathrooms. They have real changing tables and rocking chairs...its great and there's one in each park! LOVE THEM!
4. Map out your trip! You dont have to live by the code, but have a plan for each day including where you will eat major meals, etc. Make sure you include even the youngest family member in the planning!
5. TRY to keep the kids regular schedule as much as possible. Plan meals around their usual meal times to avoid melt downs. If they seem very cranky and tired just go back to the hotel and relax in the pool for a while, etc before heading back out to the fireworks. If you miss them they wont be scared for life by any means
We try to beat the massive crowds in the evenings by simply bypassing the fireworks. The buses back to the resorts can be a mess after all is said and done with the late night firework shows.
6. Take advantage of the Fast Passes for the most popular rides! Get them early as they go fast. Do single riders if possible as these lines are usually the fastest.
7. Bring your own ponchos with you. You can get them at the dollar stores, walmart, etc. cheap. They charge a fortune for them at the parks!
8. Stay onsite if you can. The kids will love it and so will you. Even the values are worth it!!!!! It makes getting back to your resort easier, everything feels more inclusive, and we just love being immersed in all the Disney Magic
9. Have a plan each day in case of LOST CHILDREN! I dont think it happens too often (hasnt to us yet knock on wood), but we used the leash with my son who was a wonderer. There are temporary tattoos or stickers you can order with your name and number to use or we put our cell phone numbers inside the kids shirts. Just make sure it's not where just anyone can see them!!!! You can even use an electronic kid finder that has a wrist band that the child wears.
10. Have one parent be in charge of one kid (or two) per outing. If you are in charge of the youngest while dad takes the older ones on the rides one day then the next day he can be in charge, etc. Etc. That way everyone gets to have fun and experience the rides with each other and no one feels left out. Most rides are family friendly at Disney so this is not too much of an issue!
11. I could probably go on and on, but lets here what others have to say. Im sure I missed some really good points and ones that will help me out too on our next trip in SEPTEMBER