disney kid at heart
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jun 15, 2005
I don't know. How would he feel in mine?
This is such a small family, my brother and his kids, plus me and mine all moved here two years ago when my parents did to be near them in their retirement. We had no idea there would be nine months before mom died and now in less than 15 more he has found a "companion". I cannot fathom how feelings change so fast. Isn't this just a rebound or something. I won't talk him out of it, but I don't know if I will want to visit anymore either. I am so sad. I don't want to plan the trip with these factors in mind. I just can't see reserving a room for Mr & Mrs. It isn't right. To me.
Your dad's feelings for your mother will never change. He will see her again in Heaven. My husband was a widower and had he not started seeing me and had I not started seeing him we would both be dead right now. You have NO idea the pain a husband or a wife feels when they lose someone they loved for dear life. I know I would not want to go on if I ever lost him and he feels the same way. We go to his wife's grave every couple of months. We have been married for 13years and we still have this issue with his children. When any of them would come over the others called them Benedict Arnold. I adore his children and he adores mine. Aslong as we would buy them whatever they wanted they would come over at Christmas but times are harder now and now they don't come over at all and don't call him on his birthday or any time. Do not begrudge for father's happiness because life is way to short. I do not know how old you are but you need to be in your fathers life. Please don't let your dad's happiness eat away to where you do not have a relationship with him. My husband made me promise not to call his kids if something happens to him. Of course I will though but I hope I go before him. I at least know my kids will take care of him the way I have always. Be kind to your dad.