DeluxePrincess
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- Jul 5, 2005
DH and I decided that we would pay for college and not fully fund any weddings. We might pay for an aspect of the wedding (flowers, photographer, music, etc), but that would be it.
DH and I decided that we would pay for college and not fully fund any weddings. We might pay for an aspect of the wedding (flowers, photographer, music, etc), but that would be it.
DH and I decided that we would pay for college and not fully fund any weddings. We might pay for an aspect of the wedding (flowers, photographer, music, etc), but that would be it.
One would think...We will, assuming our situation stays the same over the next many years. Currently our daughter is only ten and plans to live a nearly monastic life as dedicated scientist and professes to have no interest in a husband who takes her mind off her studies (yes, we do feel like she is judging us, her parents who got distracted and married), so who knows, we may not have to... (Although we assume her opinions on taking a spouse may change over the next few years...)
Big weddings are so over rated and a waste of money. Imnsho. But then again Im a JOP kinda girl, I just wanted to be married and be with my husband forever. Because that what weddings are about right?
yep-I used to think similarly
Attended DS's engagement party last night-just the CLOSE friends and CLOSE relatives there was a large # of people!
so I can see why it will be a large wedding (250)
they want their friends and (large) family there, at their wedding
More then likely yes we will help pay. I have no desire to control whatever the bride or groom choose.
Big weddings are so over rated and a waste of money. Imnsho. But then again Im a JOP kinda girl, I just wanted to be married and be with my husband forever. Because that what weddings are about right?
GASP!!! You are evil. naaah, weddings are about celebrating the marriage and nothing beats a big, blowout celebration. I am sooo the opposite. I totally admit I was a "princess" type of gal. LOL when I got engaged, I knew it was going to be a blow out formal affair. actually I really didn't think about what weddings were "about". that was my personality, lol my sister and I were diva's out of the womb according to my parents and older relatives. My sister wanted dove's released at her wedding. unfortunately we also have a large family, so 250-300 people are not unusual at our shindigs.
Look at it this way, August we are having a combination family reunion and 100th birthday celebration for my oldest aunt. So far we have 27 people definitely making it to Disney for the family reunion and at last count 325 people who will be in Charleston sc for the birthday party and they are all related. we've still got 2 more months.
I couldn't imagine going to the JOP, that would be like going to mcdonald's for my 25th anniversary. Not gonna happen, don't care how much I love the Joe.
My brothers did do the Justice of the peace but that was mainly because they were in the military and didn't have 10 months to plan.
Now one caveat, we would never have asked our parents to pay more than they could afford.
I'm a widow and I'd think I'd like to date again. I feel sorry for the dude if I ever think about getting married again. I am sooo having a huge Disney wedding, LOL at my age.
LOL!My parents gave us a set amount and told us what we didn't spend we could keep.
That really makes the swan ice sculpture seem unnecessary.