Angelrose's Journey

Another milestone.....just think - you had over 43 years with him! And they sound like they were pretty darn good years too! (funny about the "Catholic" thing. My Dad was Catholic and my Mom converted to marry him. Her parents didn't come to their wedding because she was marrying a Catholic - wierd, huh?)
 
That is funny Julie. Ron's mother was not thrilled that he was marrying a Catholic either. They were Methodist. Ron didn't follow any religion. He was a very spiritual man and a good man. I think God was pleased with him.

We did have wonderful years together. I'm just greedy and wish we had more. I have to comfort myself with the thought that we will have eternity to spend together when I join him.
 
Hello Angelrose...and all the other special folks that stop by here...

Today would have been another Milestone but it still is. It is still the day you married your beloved so many years ago. Part of your life journey. We never know how many of those Anniversaries we will share do we? My sister and her husband have been here with me for the past 3 weeks and shared their 52nd Anniversary while here. Long time...

That is funny about the Catholic 'thing'..my husband is Catholic but we didn't marry in a Catholic Church. We had to suffer the remarks from his Mum for some time and then again as our daughter's were Christened..oh well. My friend married a Jewish fellow ..she was telling me the other day that their 1st Christmas together they had a tree and her husbands-father stopped by. THey had to 'hide' the fully decorated tree quick! Not quite sure how they did that! LOL...

I am thinking of you...as with most days...today. Don't dwell too much on that Ron isn't here with you in person, he is always there. My friend lost her husband 5 years ago at the age of 50..every Anniversary she toasts a glass of Champagne to him. Celebrate all that love you shared today. Nothing takes that away..

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Hello minnie56. You always say the nicest things. Thank you.

I wished Ron a Happy Anniversary today and remembered our wedding day again. It's hard to believe that so many years have passed since that day. But I do have my memories to help me through it.

I spent the day in the pool again. Ron would have loved today's weather. Much cooler and no humidity. It was a joy to swim.

Chuck called me tonight to check up on me. I thought that was sweet of him. He does make me feel better.
 


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How blessed to be surrounded by those wonderful memories and a dear son to remember your special day too. Cheers to you and your lifetime love!
 
I'm sorry I missed this. I am truly sorry for your loss.
 
Thank you Serena. I am learning slowly to accept it. But I do have my family and that helps.

Of course I have my wonderful friends here on the DIS. I don't know what I would do without them.
 


Angelrose, I am so sorry I missed your anniversary...I cannot even begin to imagine how difficult it must have been. :hug: it is so true that life is a journey and we enver know where the road will take us..so many years of joy, then a turn we enver expected bring sorrow....yet we find strength even in our sorrow. Love makes us survivors.

I laughed when I read your mother wore navy blue to your wedding....guess what color I wore to Mia's wedding?? Yep, navy blue!! :rotfl: But it was very pretty, with a soft ruffle around the neck, sleeves and bottom (it was a dress and jacket and all I could find that wasn't loaded with rhinestones.;) )


On Toby's birthday and angel day, we always toast him with his favorite drink.

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My mother's dress was fit for a funeral. LOL Nothing frilly or dressy about it. But she did finally come around after a few years.

Yes love does make us survivors. Sometimes I can feel Ron so close and other times he seems so far away. But I know he is watching over me.

Please take care of yourself. :hug:
 
Yesterday I had just gotten out of the pool and was starting to eat my dinner when the phone rang. It was Chuck sounding very strained, asking me if I could come over and watch Jesse. He had to take Karen to the hospital because she was spotting and having contractions and cramping again. So I threw my salad in the fridge, got dressed and flew down the road to their house. Karen was smiling so I knew she wasn't feeling too bad. Chuck was another story. He really was upset. The left for the hospital which is only a few minutes away. Jesse was so glad to see me. He was watching Cars. I had to help him find his bear so he could watch the movie with his two bears.

We watched the whole movie and then I told him I would read him some books before bedtime. He has 4 favorite books that I must read every time I go there. One is an alphabet book with animals. A is for ape etc. So on each page I would ask him what the animal was. He knew most of them. Then I had to read it over again. This time, I would say the letter and then he would ask me, "Do you what that animal is on this page?" And I had to answer. It was really cute.

I told him it was time for bed. He said he wanted to get his bath. So I said OK. He ran up the stairs. I went a bit slower. By the time I got upstairs, he had gotten undressed, threw his clothes in the hamper, got in the tub and had started the water running! He showed me all his toys. Then I noticed there was no plug. I looked all around and couldn't find one and Jesse didn't know either. So I told him no bath tonight. Karen later told me it was in the toy turtle hanging on the wall that holds all his toys. I got him in his jammies and kissed him goodnight and tucked him in. By the time I got downstairs he was crying.

He had done this when he was younger. But had outgrown it. Now he's back to crying. After about 20 minutes, I went upstairs and asked him why he was crying. He just looked at me. I made him lay down again and kissed him goodnight again. He started crying again as soon as I closed his door.

I let him cry for a few more minutes and then went up again. He still couldn't tell me why he was crying. So I told him his mommy and daddy would be home soon. I told him that I knew he was tired and that I loved him. I kissed him goodnight again. He cried for another 30 seconds and then turned over and was fast asleep.

I started to watch the first Harry Potter movie. It was half over and the kids came back home. Karen was fine. The contractions had stopped and Miss Zoey was behaving herself.

It was after 9pm when I got home. But I'm so relieved that Karen is feeling well again. She is now home on maternity leave so she can relax and put her feet up whenever she feels like it.

I did so enjoy spending time with my little angel.
 
Glad to hear things are ok.

I love that first Harry Potter movie.

Have a nice night.
 
I'm so glad Karen and little Zoey are ok. sounds like it won't be too long before she makes her grand appearance. Poor little Jesse...sounds like he's struggling with falling asleep. My 7 yr old still has this problem. She said it's so quiet that she has time to realize she's lonely. ;):rotfl2:
 
Thank you ksumn1. I think you are right about Jesse falling asleep. He had gotten passed it and now it's back again. I guess he will outgrow it eventually. But it is heartbreaking to hear him cry like that.

I don't think Karen will make it to the end of the month. She is scheduled to have a cesaerian (sp?) on the 31st. I hope she can make it a couple more weeks.
 
Hi Angelrose..how are you doing? How nice that you can be there for your precious little Jesse when Mom and Dad have to take care of little Zoey. She does sound as if she just might be here sooner rather than later! She's eager :)

Poor little guy..I think when they house is still and quiet sometimes they just don't know how to let themselves drift off...

Are you enjoying the summer? It's been a pretty nice one here although a little too hot and muggy some of the time....

Keep us posted with Karen and the little lady when she gets here!

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That was certainly a scare, angelrose. I am so glad Zoey and Karen are doing okay..not much longer until it's time for you meet her, right?

I've been a bit aol again - was waiting for my Dr to call with the results of the uterine biopsy. It took over a week and I was getting pretty antsy bu last Wednesday. She finally called about 5:30 - news not terrible, but not the best either. Will need a hysterectomy and there is a 9 to 30% chance of finding cancer. She offered to give me a referred to a GYN Oncologist, but I declined thinking I'd be fine with her. After a day or two I was able to take in all she said and called on Friday to ask for the referral. Had to leave a message - it does take her several days to get back to me, so antsy again. Want to get this moving. My friend has the same thing going on and her surgery will be the end of the month - my Dr said October! Hopefully, things will move along more quickly with the Specialist. I would sure appreciate good thoughts and prayer. :flower3:

Do keep us posted. Hope you are otherwise doing well.:goodvibes

Oh, our friend Michelle had nasal surgery yesterday in hopes of helping her breath better. She must be out of work for 2 weeks - I know you'll keep in her good thoughts and prayer too!:grouphug:
 
Yes I am enjoying the summer. I spend most of my time in the pool. To keep my mind occupied, I think of all our trips to DW. I visit all our favorite rides and eat in our favorite places. It's fun to visualize everything there.

Christine, I've been wondering how you were doing. Please know that you are in my prayers. Just keep thinking those positive thoughts. You WILL be fine!

Karen is still doing well today. Yesterday her co workers gave her a baby shower, which I thought was nice.
 
Oh Minnie&Nana many prayers for you too! Think only positive thoughts..those are slim odds it's something nasty and much better that it isn't. :hug: Take it a day at a time and try not to let your mind race to the "what if's"??

I think of Chell so often and wonder how she is doing...I hope she gets to feeling better too. Sending good thoughts and prayers her way too..poor thing..

I have been nursing 2 torn meniscis cartilage in my knee..I was in Florida a few weeks back and ended up in Emerg:rolleyes1 Had an ultrasound there at the Hosp and some injection for pain and since I have been back one test after another!!! Had the MRI which showed the tears so as I am off yet again to Disney on Tues a little to my Dr's dismay..the appt with the Orthopedic Surgeon will be when I get back. I am armed with pain meds a cane and will get a scooter in the parks which I am not looking forward to! Oh well...I will plod on and do what I am able to.

All kinds of woes hmm? We need to all get better!

That was very nice of Karen's co-workers wasn't it? I am sure she got all kinds of goodies.

I am off to bed to read...nite all!:flower3:
 
minnie56, you will be grateful for the scooter at the parks, believe me. But it is cheaper if you rent from an outside place. They will deliver it to your hotel and pick it up when you leave.

This is the place I used and was very satisfied.

http://www.scootarama.com/typesofscooters.aspx?UserID=1900102&SessionID=hZQu3p5x5PPyGMPlpFLK

There are others such as Walker.

Enjoy your Disney trip. And please be careful.

I wish I knew how chell was doing too.

Julie thanks for the prayers for Karen and Zoey. So far she has been behaving herself this weekend. Zoey that is. I make no such statements about our Karen. ;)
 

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