maburke
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 20, 2002
*grabs soapbox* Raising confident, secure, inspired kids hits me right in my wheelhouse. I can't even imagine tying a millstone of defeat around a child's neck before they even have a chance to know who they really are or to see what they really are capable of doing. We are all capable of the extraordinary. How tragic when opportunities are cut off before you even knew they where there. I feel badly, too, for those dear ladies who have endured the experiences that helped to define them in such a way that they accept those notions as reality.
I completely agree. I can't imagine raising kids to expect disappointment. I'm sure all parents deal with the decision of when do you stop letting the kids win at games, but there's nothing like the pride on both sides when a kid really does win on his or her own! I worried that I was letting my daughter face reality too early when I let her audition for the church musical at 6 years old. I now realize that I probably would have been more disappointed than she would have been if she didn't make it. But a year and two productions later, she is having a fantastic time, and meeting some wonderful new friends. (I still haven't had to face the disappointment question, though, since she's never been rejected yet! Just got another show acceptance by email this morning!)