The best answer you got was ... maybe. It depends on what you like. The moderates are, in my opinion, more laid back than the deluxes because they are more spread out. They can be like a vacation within a vacation. It all depends on what you are able to accept or not. Like it was said before, the food courts have a much larger selection at the moderates, and a lot of things are the same, especially the CM's. I've been fortunate in my travels, I've never had a bad experience with a CM.
The moderates are different than the deluxes. As long as you know what to expect there, and are comfortable with it, then you will be fine. It's the same no matter what resort category you choose. My son is absolutely convinced that he will not like staying at the Grand Floridian - you will notice it's not on my list of resorts to go to (yet). He prefers the Contemporary to any other resort (even staying in the wings), my daughter prefers the Caribbean Beach, and I prefer Beach Club (notice Beach Club isn't listed yet either - my son prefers Boardwalk).
Anyway, I hope you enjoy your trip.
Also, Bstanly, I visited your 2001 trip - I thought it was great. Thanks for sharing with us.