Hi!
We celebrated my son's 10th "Gotcha Day" 2 weeks ago-- a celebration of the day he arrived into our home.
He was adopted from Korea.
If you're thinking international, there are a bunch of additional variables to consider-- all of which helped us decide on Korea:
- Do you have to travel or will the baby come to you. (Korea will do it either way.)
- Where are the babies before the adoption goes through? The Korean agency that our agency worked through had the babies in foster homes. As a result, Brian was incredibly well socialized when he arrived; he was used to being part of a family, to being held, to going to the store and being out and about.
-What is the cost of the program?
- What's the the typical timeline?
- How old are the babies from that program?
- If it matters to you, can you request a particular gender?
If you're thinking international, I suggest you take a look at our agency's website:
www.new-beginnings.org
While they may not be licensed in your state, they have a great rundown on the requirements for each of the programs they work with.
It's incredibly important to work with a reputable agency. Every single penny we spent was accounted for. It was requested at pre-determined points in the process, with a good amount due at the very end.
For us, the process took 11 months from the time we contacted New Beginnings until Brian was placed in our arms at JFK.
Please feel free to PM me with any questions. I could rave about adoption for hours.
Oh, and for the record: all 3 of my kids, adopted or biological, are "mine" as well
OOPs, one more thing on the citizenship question:
Just about 10 years ago, shortly after Brian arrived, the law changed. From that point onward, any minor child became a citizen as soon as the adoption became finalized. For us, that meant 6 months after Brian's arrival from Korea. But there is no longer a need for a separate citizenship procedure.
Here's the info:
http://international.adoption.com/foreign/citizenship-for-your-internationally-adopted-child.html