A Question of Independence...
We'll be spending time with family this weekend and, naturally, Tricia is anxious to talk Disney with her cousin.
She pooh-poohs me when I want to talk about the trip, but that's just her being a teenager. Wow...
a teenager!!
I laugh a lot about her recent attitudes and how they reflect her growing up, but the fact remains that she
is thirteen now and is slowly being given more freedoms and responsibilities as Ed and I see fit.
Charleston Princess brought it up the other day and it got me thinking...
I know that this subject will come up eventually in our family conversations...perhaps it may even come up this weekend...and I want to be prepared. I just know that at some point, the two thirteen-year-olds are going to want to go off on their own to do a certain ride or shop or whatever while we're at WDW and I'm not sure how I feel about it.
Yes, they will both have their cell phones. Yes, I can trust that they will honor the buddy system and stick together. But I just don't know.....
Somehow I just don't feel comfortable letting the two of them go off together in the parks.
I know that WDW is relatively safe, but I cannot help but worry. I know Ed feels the same way, but I'm worried that my DSis (Catie's mom) feels more comfortable with letting them go and it may cause a bit of a conflict when we're there. Catie is an only child and used to a lot of independence.
Now, I'm perfectly fine if, say, the girls don't want to see Playhouse Disney and Ed takes them to the Magic of Disney Animation while I stay with Billy. I just don't think I can let them go off without an adult just yet.
What do you think? Am I being over-protective??
Kathy