.... one of the other girls said that "Amy isn't going to be able to do Showchoir".
The girl that spoke up just texted dd and told her that "Amy" is pregnant.
Is there more confirmation than a text from a fellow student?
My senior year of HS I had one main friend (my other friends were distancing themselves b/c I had the audacity to date boys that asked me out instead of telling the boys that someone else had called dibs on them), and, well...she was so desperate for attention that she made up at least 3 pregnancies during high school. Big huge sob story to whatever main friend she had at the time. Got lots and lots of sympathy, then suddenly no baby was EVER mentioned...until the next "omg I'm pregnant" moment with a friend.
She even did it to me my freshman year of college. Had a baby on the way (while snorting some white substance up from her parents' coffee table), will you be godmother, blah blah blah...then...nothing ever said again.
If people can make it up about themselves, some random other 13 year old could be making it up as well.
My birthmom was pregnant and married at 15! She had another child at 16. One of her kids had kids at 16 so by 32 she was a grandmother---the grandchild had a child at 16 so now by 48 she was a great grandmother.....it didn't stop there though---that great grandchild had a child at 18 so at 66 she was a great great grandmother! Nothing like a cycle repeating itself over and over and over!!!
A friend from elementary school on had a family like that. Made for some AMAZING reunions and pictures, and they all definitely had the support of one another. My friend got to nearly 19...was 4 months along at graduation... From her FB page it doesn't seem that her daughters followed along in the family tradition though.
My mom managed to instill a HEALTHY dose of absolute mortifying embarrassment about the whole *getting nekkid with a boy* thing. Not sure how. But every time I even smooched a boy I had the strong feeling that my mom KNEW about it, and I'd get embarrassed and end the date. I was a senior in college before I was able to shrug that feeling off of me!
I also had a very strong sense of "I don't want to do anything that would make me make decisions, until I KNOW what those decisions would be". So...no pregnancy behaviors until I KNEW what I would do and HOW I would do it. How would I raise a baby? How could I give it up for adoption? How could I do the other option? Most importantly, *how could I tell my mom*?????"
Until those questions were solidly answered in my mind I didn't go forward with boy-girl things.
Not sure how I came up with that, but it served me well!