pacrosby
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Nov 6, 2009
A lot of schools suspend if they've gone up the 'ladder' - conduct notices, in school suspension, etc. It's totally possible at that age to understand. I think it's completely selling kids short to think that the average 6 year old can't comprehend "We don't do this at school" if his PARENTS are backing up the school rules at home.
Not to mention at that age suspensions aren't just to send a message to the KID but to the PARENTS as well.
Chances are his parents think "Oh, it's just a boy being a boy" or "it's no big deal" which isn't helping that kid at all (obviously) learn that there are situations where certain behaviors are not tolerated. It doesn't so much matter what the child did so much as he kept doing it despite being told no several times - most schools have rules about insubordination.
Actually I didn't say he didn't comprehend the directive. I said he was a 6 yo boy and 6 yo boys are immature and impulsive. And they tend to like to point their fingers, or a stick, or a crayon, or a lego, and go pow pow. Again the parents have NO control over the boy's behavior at school. (btw I have 3 boys and I'm a fairly strict PIA mother....still, it's not always as easy and straight forward as it may seem it should be)
That said...I missed the fact that the parents are suing. That's interesting and certainly suggests that they may be lousy parents with a poorly behaved kid. Of course they may be good parents with an immature, impulsive 6 yo boy who aren't particularly pleased with the way the school department has handled this. I'm not there. I don't know. I think, to be fair, we need to consider both possibilities (although yes, I realize, the DIS isn't at all concerned about fairness ).