The weird thing is that he'd flown plenty prior to then and did so without issue from then on but that one day he decided to throw a fit. I can't begin to imagine how tough it can be when the child has issues.
I wonder if he was a little freaked out by the other flight that had been canceled, the one where the FAs did let him walk around before it was canceled?
I know my son (though a year or more older) was really worried about flying home when on the way to San Diego he had big time ear pain for the first time.
I'm guessing that she chose that seat location for the extra space. But, no matter where she sat, the boy needed to be restrained, and that wasn't going to happen.
Yes, I'm assuming she chose the seat, thinking it would be better for him.
Mouse House Mama, I was meaning that the FA could have talked in HER ear. Others had said that it might be hard for the mom to hear the FA if the child was screaming and yelling, and I was saying that speaking really close and low could have taken care of that problem that would exacerbate the stress in ANYone (having a family member yelled at), if the FA was indeed yelling at the mom or kid in order to be heard.
Please note that I'm not saying the FA needs to know how to deal better than the mom, I'm just thinking that from our recent experience with a FA who needed some training on how to deal with a totally fine, not acting up, doing what he's supposed to do ADULT, that not all FAs know how to deal with people, let alone a kid having a tantrum, regular 2 year old variety or otherwise.
I'm also not saying that they shouldn't have taken them off the flight. But I do have lots of empathy and sympathy for the situation as I'm reading it, b/c when your kid is flipping out it is HARD, especially when traveling. And if the kiddo has an accurate diagnosis, at only 2 the mom hasn't had much experience with it yet, she's very likely not perfect, and for her to have burst into tears it means she was overwhelmed.
And the whole thing just sounds awful for everyone, and I have no interest in talking about what she should have done in any sort of mean way.