kittylady1972
Disneyholic
- Joined
- Oct 20, 2003
Disney takes a backseat for a while...will we change our plans yet again?
Ok, so I was so busy last week with various appointments and issues that I never get back here to update. However it means there was nothing to update really...at least right now. Here's the long and short of it though.
I had many appointments last week for medical checkups for myself. Yes part of this is due to my mom's recent new diagnosis with cancer for the 2nd time...it certainly makes you more aware of your own health. I was having some issues I needed addressed and so far, that's gone well. I did have two tests done on Friday for which I'm awaiting results though...so we'll see what happens.
In the meantime, the update on my mom so far is pretty good. They have staged her lung cancer as 2A, which is not the BEST news as we were hoping for stage 1, but at least it's still pretty good. They have not seen any evidence that it has spread elsewhere so far, which is all good as well. She is still awaiting a few more test results though so keeping fingers crossed. They have scheduled her surgery to remove the mass in her lung as well as the entire lobe that it is affecting...and that surgery is scheduled for February 27th.
This is the Monday before we leave for our trip. While my brother plans to be there for her and she has told me not to worry about going...well I'm not a very good listener. I want to be there for her and for my dad so as of right now my plan is to drive down Sunday night, stay for surgery Monday, check in with her on Tuesday and then drive home probably Tuesday night.
They expect her to be in the hospital for a few days, so she SHOULD be out by the end of the week. I will probably be okay with heading back home the day after surgery if she is doing well...but there's a chance I could stay a bit longer. I'm keeping my options open.
So then there's the matter of the trip. If I am already pretty much HALFWAY to Disney...I am wondering if it might make sense to just drive from there. However it's just not that simple really.
My husband is supposed to leave for a business trip...Feb. 28th and return on Friday March 2nd. He's going back and forth on cancelling the trip to be with me. I think it's kind of important for him to be on the trip due to some office politics...but he also feels family should come first. I'm really okay with whatever decision he makes...but of course it's not just about him either.
There is also the matter of three kids...who I have yet to tell about their grandmother, who they adore. I don't know to what extent I will tell them about her health. If I go down on Sunday and just stay through the week it would mean leaving them behind for almost TWO WEEKS!
And another thing is that our oldest son is participating in the state science fair on Saturday March 3rd. DH is supposed to attend that with him. So that means DH should at least be home for that...and no driving to Florida for him. He would have to be home Saturday morning for that.
So while driving seems to make more sense to me, it also means me taking more time off from work, leaving the kids behind for so much longer and I'd have to be packed already the previous Sunday for our Disney trip. I may pack anyway...just in case I do stay a bit longer.
Realistically right now I think I'll probably end up going down alone on Sunday, staying through Tuesday or Wednesday, and then returning home Wednesday night or Thursday. MAYBE DH will be with me too...just don't know yet. We'll most likely still fly down on Saturday.
Oh and did I mention one other thing...that I might end up driving down in our new vehicle that we purchased on Friday? Yes my DH has never been known for keeping vehicles for very long and so about a week ago I mentioned that I really liked the changes they made to the 2012 Honda Pilot. I own a 2008 Honda Pilot and told him when I was ready to get rid of mine, I'd probably look at the 2012 Pilot or beyond. Since I don't have a car payment currently, I was not willing or even thinking about doing this NOW but DH was trying to convince me to get rid of mine. We do put a lot of miles on our cars now that we drive to NC a few times a year so he thought it would make sense. I just don't want two car payments.
Well with the improved gas mileage and other changes, DH made the decision to try to get rid of his 2009 (or was it 2010...I don't even know) Mazda CX-9 and get a new 2012 Honda Pilot instead. I was fine with that as long as the car payment stayed as close to the current one as possible. So that's what he did on Friday...and I just went Friday evening to the dealership to sign my name on the paperwork.
Anyway if he goes away in February, he doesn't want to park the NEW Pilot at the airport for a few days...so he wants me to drive it down to NC instead. I'm okay with that...but I really do love driving my own Pilot just as much. Whatever though...we'll see what happens.
So yep...plenty of stuff going on here and to think about to keep my mind off of making any more Disney changes. I can't believe I've only got less than 3 weeks until my trip!!!
Ok, so I was so busy last week with various appointments and issues that I never get back here to update. However it means there was nothing to update really...at least right now. Here's the long and short of it though.
I had many appointments last week for medical checkups for myself. Yes part of this is due to my mom's recent new diagnosis with cancer for the 2nd time...it certainly makes you more aware of your own health. I was having some issues I needed addressed and so far, that's gone well. I did have two tests done on Friday for which I'm awaiting results though...so we'll see what happens.
In the meantime, the update on my mom so far is pretty good. They have staged her lung cancer as 2A, which is not the BEST news as we were hoping for stage 1, but at least it's still pretty good. They have not seen any evidence that it has spread elsewhere so far, which is all good as well. She is still awaiting a few more test results though so keeping fingers crossed. They have scheduled her surgery to remove the mass in her lung as well as the entire lobe that it is affecting...and that surgery is scheduled for February 27th.
This is the Monday before we leave for our trip. While my brother plans to be there for her and she has told me not to worry about going...well I'm not a very good listener. I want to be there for her and for my dad so as of right now my plan is to drive down Sunday night, stay for surgery Monday, check in with her on Tuesday and then drive home probably Tuesday night.
They expect her to be in the hospital for a few days, so she SHOULD be out by the end of the week. I will probably be okay with heading back home the day after surgery if she is doing well...but there's a chance I could stay a bit longer. I'm keeping my options open.
So then there's the matter of the trip. If I am already pretty much HALFWAY to Disney...I am wondering if it might make sense to just drive from there. However it's just not that simple really.
My husband is supposed to leave for a business trip...Feb. 28th and return on Friday March 2nd. He's going back and forth on cancelling the trip to be with me. I think it's kind of important for him to be on the trip due to some office politics...but he also feels family should come first. I'm really okay with whatever decision he makes...but of course it's not just about him either.
There is also the matter of three kids...who I have yet to tell about their grandmother, who they adore. I don't know to what extent I will tell them about her health. If I go down on Sunday and just stay through the week it would mean leaving them behind for almost TWO WEEKS!
And another thing is that our oldest son is participating in the state science fair on Saturday March 3rd. DH is supposed to attend that with him. So that means DH should at least be home for that...and no driving to Florida for him. He would have to be home Saturday morning for that.
So while driving seems to make more sense to me, it also means me taking more time off from work, leaving the kids behind for so much longer and I'd have to be packed already the previous Sunday for our Disney trip. I may pack anyway...just in case I do stay a bit longer.
Realistically right now I think I'll probably end up going down alone on Sunday, staying through Tuesday or Wednesday, and then returning home Wednesday night or Thursday. MAYBE DH will be with me too...just don't know yet. We'll most likely still fly down on Saturday.
Oh and did I mention one other thing...that I might end up driving down in our new vehicle that we purchased on Friday? Yes my DH has never been known for keeping vehicles for very long and so about a week ago I mentioned that I really liked the changes they made to the 2012 Honda Pilot. I own a 2008 Honda Pilot and told him when I was ready to get rid of mine, I'd probably look at the 2012 Pilot or beyond. Since I don't have a car payment currently, I was not willing or even thinking about doing this NOW but DH was trying to convince me to get rid of mine. We do put a lot of miles on our cars now that we drive to NC a few times a year so he thought it would make sense. I just don't want two car payments.
Well with the improved gas mileage and other changes, DH made the decision to try to get rid of his 2009 (or was it 2010...I don't even know) Mazda CX-9 and get a new 2012 Honda Pilot instead. I was fine with that as long as the car payment stayed as close to the current one as possible. So that's what he did on Friday...and I just went Friday evening to the dealership to sign my name on the paperwork.
Anyway if he goes away in February, he doesn't want to park the NEW Pilot at the airport for a few days...so he wants me to drive it down to NC instead. I'm okay with that...but I really do love driving my own Pilot just as much. Whatever though...we'll see what happens.
So yep...plenty of stuff going on here and to think about to keep my mind off of making any more Disney changes. I can't believe I've only got less than 3 weeks until my trip!!!