Thank you for your thoughtfulness! The service went well, and I will share a little anecdote that made me smile...
My dad had some ideas of how he wanted things done. We had the service in a chapel at a nursing home, but not the one my mom was at. The mass was during the regular daily service, so a lot of the attendees were people we didnt know. The boys didnt have school due to after effects of Hurricane Sandy. My brother, nephew and niece were there. Two of my dads sisters, my inlaws and my dads good friend and his wife were there.
I did a reading and Ben did a short reading. His theatre training really paid off- he was not nervous and really projected his voice. After the service, the priest complimented Ben, and they discussed their mutual interest in the theatre. Father Don had once portrayed Macbeth, so he and Ben recited the Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow soliloquy together.
During communion, my dad wanted Ave Maria to play. The church had an organ with the song programed. My mom also had an organ with the song- my dad asked me to bring it. But he ended up using a cassette player with a tape of my mom playing, without her knowing she was being taped. One of the songs she played was Ave Maria. Nate was in charge of pushing play at the proper moment. Which he did. And out came Chopsticks!
Apparently, my dad had not bothered cuing up the right song!